if you need honesty & live near NYC...

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

NOW

did you ever have an instance when, although life is very complex, you thought--my entire life led to this one moment; then life was simply crystal clear?

did you ever meet someone and knew that you were kindred spirits; that is, not only have you known them before you physically met, but their otherness validated your uniqueness?

did you know that this moment will never return, so we must laugh, be gentle, and give of ourselves; in other words maximize the moment, without completely dismissing the past or hope of what the future brings?

by essentialmale 10/20/07

I am a 42 year old single Caribbean man. I have developed a meaningful relationship with God because He pursued me, and has not stopped. I dream of having children and a close family, love to laugh, and find ways to laugh continuously. I enjoy listening and great conversation. I believe that the essential factors of life's journey are love, truth, and knowledge. Life is music, dance, art, and game. I am an artist, amateur writer (includes poetry and self-discovery genres), enjoy fashion, interior decor, culinary arts, photography, music, biking, working out, skiing, traveling, etc., etc., etc. I look for the beauty in everything. I am not your typical man in that "I'd prefer to read poetry to my mate than look at football."

Sign

Sagittarius

My Body Type Is

Muscular

My Height Is

5' 10 (1.78 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

Other

My Marital Situation Is

Single

I Have Kids

No

I Want Kids

Yes

My Best Feature Is

Smile

Body Art

Other

My Hair Is

Bald

I Have One Or More Of These

Other

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

Some University

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Administrative / Management

My Job Title Is

program assistant, hospital

I Make This Much In A Year

$30,000USD To $44,999USD

I Live

With Roomate(s)

At Home

There Is No Noise

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

No

Back In High School, I Was A

Class Clown

My Social Behavior Is

Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Outgoing

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Exercising, Arts & Crafts, Sports, Reading, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Games, Dancing, Family, Dining, Photography, Religion / Spirituality, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Cars, Camping, Fishing / Hunting, Volunteering, Computers

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Perhaps go to a museum, go for a walk in the park, and/or have lunch. A good view is always nice.

However, it is important that we are able to talk and not be too distracted by the environment; apart from this I am completely flexible.

I've Always Wanted To Try

Automobiles/Motorcycles, Biking, Camping/Hiking/Fishing, Gardening, Golf, Horseback riding, Photography, Sailing, SCUBA Diving, Snow Skiing/Snowboarding, Sports/Athletics, Sunbathing, Tennis, Traveling/Sightseeing and Water Skiing/Windsurfing

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Troublemaker, Cool, Perfect, Goofy, A Flirt

My Denomination Is

Non-Denominational

I Attend Services

Once A Week

My Political Views Are

Liberal

My Goal In Life Is

Generally, my life will be devoted to serving other people who are less fortunate than me.

I probably will not be living in uncomfortable conditions as I appreciate modern amenities and technologies to the fullest. However, serving others will require that, for spans of time, I survive in conditions that are less than ?comfortable.? As for my soulmate, this lifestyle choice is not for the extremely ?cute and prissy.?

?It is only when I am helping another that I am fully alive.?

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, Re-runs

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Family, Thriller

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Rap, Rock, Pop, Blues, Jazz, Latin, New age, Ambient, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Gospel

When I Read, I Always Read

News, Ancient, Auto-biography, Business, Comic, Computers, History, Home & Garden, Instructional, Nature, Philosophy, Political, Poetry, Religious, Satire, Science, Technical

My Idea Of Fun Is

Anything that makes you laugh...

What Do You Find Attractive?

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Money, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed