Best friend and love for life
cafekid
Fresno, California | Mujer Buscando Hombre
Información Básica
Puedo hablar
Inglés, Francés, Español, Otros
Me describiría a mi mismo como
Whenever you feel angry, sad, depressed, resentful, or less than, make a gratitude list.
I could write a book about myself, my personality, things I've done, places I've been too...but so what? I'll send that to a publisher...
Here's a list of...Just a few things I'm grateful for...and perhaps, if nothing else, it will remind the reader of things they are grateful for, too.
1) My 19 yr old son, who is super cool, supportive of my dreams and goals, as I am his. And... his amazing brilliant brain.
2) I have a roof over my head, it's a nice roof, in a nice neighborhood. It's quiet, and pretty.
3) I am grateful for a handful of really good friends and another handful of pretty good friends, all of which care about me and I love so much.
4) I have work, I GET TO work...doesn't matter if it's fun, or not, (fortunately, I like everything I've done, and do. lol) I get to make a living. This is good.
5) I can, and do, eat really good food. I'm blessed (and my guests, too), that I know what to do with it.
6) My health may not be perfect but I'm in pretty good health. I can walk, I can talk, I can run, I can see, I can hear. I have tons of energy. I'm grateful for my health, it's pretty darn good.
7) I have my spiritual family, my AA family, biological family, and friends...A team, doing life with me. I don't control life and it doesn't control me. (Liberating! at least!) The more on my team the better. (Everyone should think of the healthy people in their lives as their support, their team. It's like armor...Let the toxic people fall off)
8) I am grateful for the tools to learn what healthy boundaries are and how to enforce them, NOT THE MOMMA! NOR THE SLAVE! which means PEACE! Dang! I'm grateful to have Peace! (Work with my hands, live a quiet life, and mind my own business) Love is an action word, it isn't self-serving, it doesn't manipulate, it isn't jealous, it isn't controlling, it's freely given.
9) I'm grateful to be able to go back to school, that I live close enough to one, to walk. (because I love to walk and ride my bike) Never too old or too young to learn, stretch, and grow. Stretch and grow baby, stretch and grow. (smile and nod)
10) I am the most grateful to God, that he never gives up on me, and that I cannot earn His love. He's a better driver and I'm safe in the passenger seat. I no longer feel the need to drive...(metaphorically speaking)
11) I'm also SOOO grateful that He's giving me the tools to live life Sober, (April 3 will be 2 yrs.) and that I GOT IT, while I'm still young enough to have a life. It's a good life...a very good life. I like to keep things simple.
I could write a book about myself, my personality, things I've done, places I've been too...but so what? I'll send that to a publisher...
Here's a list of...Just a few things I'm grateful for...and perhaps, if nothing else, it will remind the reader of things they are grateful for, too.
1) My 19 yr old son, who is super cool, supportive of my dreams and goals, as I am his. And... his amazing brilliant brain.
2) I have a roof over my head, it's a nice roof, in a nice neighborhood. It's quiet, and pretty.
3) I am grateful for a handful of really good friends and another handful of pretty good friends, all of which care about me and I love so much.
4) I have work, I GET TO work...doesn't matter if it's fun, or not, (fortunately, I like everything I've done, and do. lol) I get to make a living. This is good.
5) I can, and do, eat really good food. I'm blessed (and my guests, too), that I know what to do with it.
6) My health may not be perfect but I'm in pretty good health. I can walk, I can talk, I can run, I can see, I can hear. I have tons of energy. I'm grateful for my health, it's pretty darn good.
7) I have my spiritual family, my AA family, biological family, and friends...A team, doing life with me. I don't control life and it doesn't control me. (Liberating! at least!) The more on my team the better. (Everyone should think of the healthy people in their lives as their support, their team. It's like armor...Let the toxic people fall off)
8) I am grateful for the tools to learn what healthy boundaries are and how to enforce them, NOT THE MOMMA! NOR THE SLAVE! which means PEACE! Dang! I'm grateful to have Peace! (Work with my hands, live a quiet life, and mind my own business) Love is an action word, it isn't self-serving, it doesn't manipulate, it isn't jealous, it isn't controlling, it's freely given.
9) I'm grateful to be able to go back to school, that I live close enough to one, to walk. (because I love to walk and ride my bike) Never too old or too young to learn, stretch, and grow. Stretch and grow baby, stretch and grow. (smile and nod)
10) I am the most grateful to God, that he never gives up on me, and that I cannot earn His love. He's a better driver and I'm safe in the passenger seat. I no longer feel the need to drive...(metaphorically speaking)
11) I'm also SOOO grateful that He's giving me the tools to live life Sober, (April 3 will be 2 yrs.) and that I GOT IT, while I'm still young enough to have a life. It's a good life...a very good life. I like to keep things simple.
Signo
Sagitario
Apariencia y Situación
Mi tipo de cuerpo es
En Forma
Mi altura es
5' 8 (1.73 m)
Mis ojos son
Azules
Mi raza es
Caucásico
Mi situación marital es
Soltero
Tengo hijos
Si - No En Casa
Quiero tener hijos
No estoy seguro
Mi Mejor característica es
Ojos
Piercings, tatuajes…
Piercing en el ombligo
Mi pelo es
Marrones
Tengo uno o más de estos
Gato , Perro
Me iría a vivir a otro lugar
Si
Estatus
Mi nivel de estudios / educación es
Algo de Universidad
Mi situación laboral actual es
Auto Empleo
Mi especialidad es
Construcción / Manitas
Mi trabajo es como
Painter
Vivo en
Solo/a, Con compañero/s de piso, Con Mascota/s
En casa
Todo tranquilo
Soy Fumador
No
Soy Bebedor
No
Personalidad
En el instituto, era
Forajido
Socialmente, me describiría como
Observador, Extrovertido/a
Mis aficiones e intereses son
Hacer ejercicio, Leer, Aprender, Música, Películas, Familia, Cenar, Fotografia, Religión / Espiritualidad, Teatro, Viajar, Cocinar, Jardineria, Ir de camping, Voluntariado
Mi idea de un rato estupendo es
Salir con amigos, Quedarme en casa, Probar cosas nuevas, Películas, Relajarse, Dormir, Deportes Extremos, Leer un Libro, Jugar a vestirme elegante, Ir a un Concierto, Ir a un Museo
Mi primera cita ideal sería
Is there such a thing as an ideal first date?
Siempre he querido probar
Jumping
Mis amigos me describen como
Amistoso, Genial, Oscuro, Bobo
Puntos de Vista
Mi Denominacion es
Sin Denominación
Voy a la iglesia
Una vez a la semana
Mi meta en la vida
To educate, serve, invest in, and learn about, as many people as possible, in my lifetime. To live everywhere on the planet...okay, not quite realistic LOL how bout, a few places on the planet? hehe
Mi sentido del humor es
Inteligente, Seco / Sarcástico, Amistoso, Bobo, Oscuro, Payasadas
Gustos
En la TV, siempre veo
Noticias, Dibujos Animados, Dramas, Películas
Si voy al cine, siempre me gusta ver una
Acción, Ciencia Ficción, Drama , Animación
Cuando escucho música, lo que más me gusta es
Rap, Rock, Metal, Electrónica, Pop, Clásica, Blues, Jazz, Industrial, Latino, Ambiente, Baile, Soul, Reggae, Gospel, Folk, Punk
Cuando leo libros, lo que más me gusta es
Noticias, Autobiografías, Biografías, Cómics, Ficción, Historia, Educativos, Música, Política , Referencia, Poesía, Técnica
Mi idea de diversión es
Picnic on top of a parking garage, snapping pics along railroad tracks, climbing a big rock...
or, coffee
or, coffee
Estoy buscando a
¿Qué te resulta atractivo?
Inteligencia, Buena Imagen, Humor, Grandes Habilidades, Empatía, Sensibilidad, Audacia, Rarezas, Espontaneidad, Ingenio, Detallista
¿Qué estás buscando?
No need to respond if you smoke, drink, drug, are younger than 34 or older than 45. I'm sure there are a whole bunch of really good guys in some of those, but I know what I want and what I don't want.
A clean, sober, kind, laid-back Christian guy that's not self-absorbed. Also, a man who wants to/is not afraid to, travel, and sometimes live in other countries, do some humanitarian work, etc...
Also, everyone has some of this or that...history, baggage, weird stuff, whatever...TODAY are you healthy? or at least pursuing health? TODAY are you honest? Are you seeking truth? Are you owning your own shit? or blaming others for it? or...Are you toxic to yourself and/or others, moving forward or living in the past? Are you a part of the problem? OR Part of the Solution?
A clean, sober, kind, laid-back Christian guy that's not self-absorbed. Also, a man who wants to/is not afraid to, travel, and sometimes live in other countries, do some humanitarian work, etc...
Also, everyone has some of this or that...history, baggage, weird stuff, whatever...TODAY are you healthy? or at least pursuing health? TODAY are you honest? Are you seeking truth? Are you owning your own shit? or blaming others for it? or...Are you toxic to yourself and/or others, moving forward or living in the past? Are you a part of the problem? OR Part of the Solution?
¿Qué tipo de relación estás buscando?
Comprometido