Best friend and love for life
cafekid
Fresno, California | Vrouw Op zoek naar een Man
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Ik spreek:
Engels, Franse, Spaans, Iets Anders
Ik beschrijf mezelf als:
Whenever you feel angry, sad, depressed, resentful, or less than, make a gratitude list.
I could write a book about myself, my personality, things I've done, places I've been too...but so what? I'll send that to a publisher...
Here's a list of...Just a few things I'm grateful for...and perhaps, if nothing else, it will remind the reader of things they are grateful for, too.
1) My 19 yr old son, who is super cool, supportive of my dreams and goals, as I am his. And... his amazing brilliant brain.
2) I have a roof over my head, it's a nice roof, in a nice neighborhood. It's quiet, and pretty.
3) I am grateful for a handful of really good friends and another handful of pretty good friends, all of which care about me and I love so much.
4) I have work, I GET TO work...doesn't matter if it's fun, or not, (fortunately, I like everything I've done, and do. lol) I get to make a living. This is good.
5) I can, and do, eat really good food. I'm blessed (and my guests, too), that I know what to do with it.
6) My health may not be perfect but I'm in pretty good health. I can walk, I can talk, I can run, I can see, I can hear. I have tons of energy. I'm grateful for my health, it's pretty darn good.
7) I have my spiritual family, my AA family, biological family, and friends...A team, doing life with me. I don't control life and it doesn't control me. (Liberating! at least!) The more on my team the better. (Everyone should think of the healthy people in their lives as their support, their team. It's like armor...Let the toxic people fall off)
8) I am grateful for the tools to learn what healthy boundaries are and how to enforce them, NOT THE MOMMA! NOR THE SLAVE! which means PEACE! Dang! I'm grateful to have Peace! (Work with my hands, live a quiet life, and mind my own business) Love is an action word, it isn't self-serving, it doesn't manipulate, it isn't jealous, it isn't controlling, it's freely given.
9) I'm grateful to be able to go back to school, that I live close enough to one, to walk. (because I love to walk and ride my bike) Never too old or too young to learn, stretch, and grow. Stretch and grow baby, stretch and grow. (smile and nod)
10) I am the most grateful to God, that he never gives up on me, and that I cannot earn His love. He's a better driver and I'm safe in the passenger seat. I no longer feel the need to drive...(metaphorically speaking)
11) I'm also SOOO grateful that He's giving me the tools to live life Sober, (April 3 will be 2 yrs.) and that I GOT IT, while I'm still young enough to have a life. It's a good life...a very good life. I like to keep things simple.
I could write a book about myself, my personality, things I've done, places I've been too...but so what? I'll send that to a publisher...
Here's a list of...Just a few things I'm grateful for...and perhaps, if nothing else, it will remind the reader of things they are grateful for, too.
1) My 19 yr old son, who is super cool, supportive of my dreams and goals, as I am his. And... his amazing brilliant brain.
2) I have a roof over my head, it's a nice roof, in a nice neighborhood. It's quiet, and pretty.
3) I am grateful for a handful of really good friends and another handful of pretty good friends, all of which care about me and I love so much.
4) I have work, I GET TO work...doesn't matter if it's fun, or not, (fortunately, I like everything I've done, and do. lol) I get to make a living. This is good.
5) I can, and do, eat really good food. I'm blessed (and my guests, too), that I know what to do with it.
6) My health may not be perfect but I'm in pretty good health. I can walk, I can talk, I can run, I can see, I can hear. I have tons of energy. I'm grateful for my health, it's pretty darn good.
7) I have my spiritual family, my AA family, biological family, and friends...A team, doing life with me. I don't control life and it doesn't control me. (Liberating! at least!) The more on my team the better. (Everyone should think of the healthy people in their lives as their support, their team. It's like armor...Let the toxic people fall off)
8) I am grateful for the tools to learn what healthy boundaries are and how to enforce them, NOT THE MOMMA! NOR THE SLAVE! which means PEACE! Dang! I'm grateful to have Peace! (Work with my hands, live a quiet life, and mind my own business) Love is an action word, it isn't self-serving, it doesn't manipulate, it isn't jealous, it isn't controlling, it's freely given.
9) I'm grateful to be able to go back to school, that I live close enough to one, to walk. (because I love to walk and ride my bike) Never too old or too young to learn, stretch, and grow. Stretch and grow baby, stretch and grow. (smile and nod)
10) I am the most grateful to God, that he never gives up on me, and that I cannot earn His love. He's a better driver and I'm safe in the passenger seat. I no longer feel the need to drive...(metaphorically speaking)
11) I'm also SOOO grateful that He's giving me the tools to live life Sober, (April 3 will be 2 yrs.) and that I GOT IT, while I'm still young enough to have a life. It's a good life...a very good life. I like to keep things simple.
Sterrenbeeld
Boogschutter
Uiterlijk & Situatie
Mijn Lichaamstype Is
Fit
Mijn Lengte Is
5' 8 (1.73 m)
Mijn Ogen Zijn
Blauw
Mijn Ethniciteit Is
Blank
Mijn Burgerlijke Staat Is
Single
Ik Heb Kinderen
Ja - Niet Bij Mij Thuis
Ik Wil Kinderen
Niet Zeker
Mijn Beste Eigenschap Is
Ogen
Body Art
Navelring
Mijn Haar Is
Bruin
Ik heb één of meer van deze
Kat, Hond
Ben je bereid te verhuizen?
Ja
Status
Mijn Opleidingsniveau Is
MBO
Mijn Huidige Werkstatus Is
Zelfstandig
Mijn specialisatie is
Kunst / Muziek / Literatuur
Mijn functie is:
Painter
Ik Woon
Alleen, Met Huisgeno(o)ten, Met Huisdier(en)
Bij mij thuis
Is het lekker rustig
Ik Ben Een Roker
Nee
Ik Drink
Nee
Persoonlijkheid
Op de middelbare school was ik
Buitenstaander
In sociale situaties ben ik
Opmerkzaam, Gezellig
Mijn Interesses En Hobbies Zijn
Fitness, Lezen, Nieuwe Dingen Leren, Muziek, Films, Gezin, Eten, Fotografie, Religie / Spiritualiteit, Theater, Reizen, Koken, Tuinieren, Kamperen, Vrijwilligerswerk
Mijn idee van een leuke tijd is
Met Vrienden zijn, Thuis blijven, Ik probeer graag nieuwe dingen, Films, Relaxen, Slapen, Extreme sporten, Een boek lezen, Me verkleden, Naar een concert gaan, Naar een museum gaan
Een perfecte eerste date is
Is there such a thing as an ideal first date?
Wat ik altijd al eens heb willen proberen:
Jumping
Mijn vrienden beschrijven me als
Vriendelijk, Cool, Obscuur, Gek
Meningen
Mijn geloofsovertuiging is
Zonder religieuze bepaling
Ik Ga Naar Diensten
Een keer per week
Mijn Doel In Het Leven Is
To educate, serve, invest in, and learn about, as many people as possible, in my lifetime. To live everywhere on the planet...okay, not quite realistic LOL how bout, a few places on the planet? hehe
Mijn Gevoel Voor Humor Is
Slim, Droge Humor / Sarcastisch, Vriendelijk, Gek, Obscuur, Slapstick
Smaak
Op tv kijk ik:
Nieuws, Tekenfilms, Drama's, Films
In de bioscoop kijk ik:
Actie, Science Fiction, Drama, Animatie
Als ik naar muziek luister, luister ik altijd naar
Rap, Rock, Metal, Electonische Muziek , Pop, Klassiek, Blues, Jazz, Industrial, Latin, Ambient, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Gospel, Folk, Punk
Ik lees graag
Nieuws, Autobiografie, Biografie, Comedy, Fictie, Geschiedenis, Educatief, Muziek, Politiek, Wetenschappelijk, Poëzie, Technisch
Mijn Idee Van Plezier is
Picnic on top of a parking garage, snapping pics along railroad tracks, climbing a big rock...
or, coffee
or, coffee
Zoekt
Wat vind je aantrekkelijk?
Intelligentie, Goed Uiterlijk, Humor, Goeie Vaardigheden, Empathie, Gevoeligheid, Moed, Eigenaardigheden, Spontaniteit, Gevatheid, Bedachtzaamheid
Wat zoek je?
No need to respond if you smoke, drink, drug, are younger than 34 or older than 45. I'm sure there are a whole bunch of really good guys in some of those, but I know what I want and what I don't want.
A clean, sober, kind, laid-back Christian guy that's not self-absorbed. Also, a man who wants to/is not afraid to, travel, and sometimes live in other countries, do some humanitarian work, etc...
Also, everyone has some of this or that...history, baggage, weird stuff, whatever...TODAY are you healthy? or at least pursuing health? TODAY are you honest? Are you seeking truth? Are you owning your own shit? or blaming others for it? or...Are you toxic to yourself and/or others, moving forward or living in the past? Are you a part of the problem? OR Part of the Solution?
A clean, sober, kind, laid-back Christian guy that's not self-absorbed. Also, a man who wants to/is not afraid to, travel, and sometimes live in other countries, do some humanitarian work, etc...
Also, everyone has some of this or that...history, baggage, weird stuff, whatever...TODAY are you healthy? or at least pursuing health? TODAY are you honest? Are you seeking truth? Are you owning your own shit? or blaming others for it? or...Are you toxic to yourself and/or others, moving forward or living in the past? Are you a part of the problem? OR Part of the Solution?
Waar ben je naar op zoek?
Vastigheid