Best friend and love for life
cafekid
Fresno, California | Kvinne Søker A Mann
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Whenever you feel angry, sad, depressed, resentful, or less than, make a gratitude list.
I could write a book about myself, my personality, things I've done, places I've been too...but so what? I'll send that to a publisher...
Here's a list of...Just a few things I'm grateful for...and perhaps, if nothing else, it will remind the reader of things they are grateful for, too.
1) My 19 yr old son, who is super cool, supportive of my dreams and goals, as I am his. And... his amazing brilliant brain.
2) I have a roof over my head, it's a nice roof, in a nice neighborhood. It's quiet, and pretty.
3) I am grateful for a handful of really good friends and another handful of pretty good friends, all of which care about me and I love so much.
4) I have work, I GET TO work...doesn't matter if it's fun, or not, (fortunately, I like everything I've done, and do. lol) I get to make a living. This is good.
5) I can, and do, eat really good food. I'm blessed (and my guests, too), that I know what to do with it.
6) My health may not be perfect but I'm in pretty good health. I can walk, I can talk, I can run, I can see, I can hear. I have tons of energy. I'm grateful for my health, it's pretty darn good.
7) I have my spiritual family, my AA family, biological family, and friends...A team, doing life with me. I don't control life and it doesn't control me. (Liberating! at least!) The more on my team the better. (Everyone should think of the healthy people in their lives as their support, their team. It's like armor...Let the toxic people fall off)
8) I am grateful for the tools to learn what healthy boundaries are and how to enforce them, NOT THE MOMMA! NOR THE SLAVE! which means PEACE! Dang! I'm grateful to have Peace! (Work with my hands, live a quiet life, and mind my own business) Love is an action word, it isn't self-serving, it doesn't manipulate, it isn't jealous, it isn't controlling, it's freely given.
9) I'm grateful to be able to go back to school, that I live close enough to one, to walk. (because I love to walk and ride my bike) Never too old or too young to learn, stretch, and grow. Stretch and grow baby, stretch and grow. (smile and nod)
10) I am the most grateful to God, that he never gives up on me, and that I cannot earn His love. He's a better driver and I'm safe in the passenger seat. I no longer feel the need to drive...(metaphorically speaking)
11) I'm also SOOO grateful that He's giving me the tools to live life Sober, (April 3 will be 2 yrs.) and that I GOT IT, while I'm still young enough to have a life. It's a good life...a very good life. I like to keep things simple.
I could write a book about myself, my personality, things I've done, places I've been too...but so what? I'll send that to a publisher...
Here's a list of...Just a few things I'm grateful for...and perhaps, if nothing else, it will remind the reader of things they are grateful for, too.
1) My 19 yr old son, who is super cool, supportive of my dreams and goals, as I am his. And... his amazing brilliant brain.
2) I have a roof over my head, it's a nice roof, in a nice neighborhood. It's quiet, and pretty.
3) I am grateful for a handful of really good friends and another handful of pretty good friends, all of which care about me and I love so much.
4) I have work, I GET TO work...doesn't matter if it's fun, or not, (fortunately, I like everything I've done, and do. lol) I get to make a living. This is good.
5) I can, and do, eat really good food. I'm blessed (and my guests, too), that I know what to do with it.
6) My health may not be perfect but I'm in pretty good health. I can walk, I can talk, I can run, I can see, I can hear. I have tons of energy. I'm grateful for my health, it's pretty darn good.
7) I have my spiritual family, my AA family, biological family, and friends...A team, doing life with me. I don't control life and it doesn't control me. (Liberating! at least!) The more on my team the better. (Everyone should think of the healthy people in their lives as their support, their team. It's like armor...Let the toxic people fall off)
8) I am grateful for the tools to learn what healthy boundaries are and how to enforce them, NOT THE MOMMA! NOR THE SLAVE! which means PEACE! Dang! I'm grateful to have Peace! (Work with my hands, live a quiet life, and mind my own business) Love is an action word, it isn't self-serving, it doesn't manipulate, it isn't jealous, it isn't controlling, it's freely given.
9) I'm grateful to be able to go back to school, that I live close enough to one, to walk. (because I love to walk and ride my bike) Never too old or too young to learn, stretch, and grow. Stretch and grow baby, stretch and grow. (smile and nod)
10) I am the most grateful to God, that he never gives up on me, and that I cannot earn His love. He's a better driver and I'm safe in the passenger seat. I no longer feel the need to drive...(metaphorically speaking)
11) I'm also SOOO grateful that He's giving me the tools to live life Sober, (April 3 will be 2 yrs.) and that I GOT IT, while I'm still young enough to have a life. It's a good life...a very good life. I like to keep things simple.
Registrer
Skytten
Utseende & Situasjon
My Kroppstype er
Lekre
Min høyde er
5 '8 (1,73 m)
Øynene mine er
Blå
Min etnisitet er
kaukasisk
Min Sivilsituasjon er
Enslig
Jeg har barn
Ja - bor ikke hjemme
Jeg vil ha barn
Usikker
Min beste egenskap er
Øyne
Kropps kunst
Navlering
Mitt hår er
Brun
Jeg har en eller flere av disse
Katt, Hund
Villing til å flytte
Ja
Status
Min Utdanningsnivå Er
Noe College
Min nåværende arbeidssituasjon er
Selvstendig næringsdrivende
Min spesialitet er
Konstruksjon / kunsthåndverker
Minn jobb tittel er
Painter
Jeg bor
Alene, Med romkamerat (er), Med kjæledyr
Hjemme
Alt er rolig
Jeg er en røyker
Nei
Jeg drikker
Nei
Personlighet
Når jeg gikk på skolen, var jeg
utstøtt
Min sosiale atferd er
Observant, Utadvent
Mine interesser og hobbier er
Trene, Lese, Lære, Musikk, Filmer, Familie, Restaurant, Fotografi, Religion / livssyn, Teater, Reise, Lage mat, Hagearbeid, Kamping, Frivillig arbeid
Min idé av å ha det gøy er
Være med venner, Være hjemme, Prøve nye ting, Kino, Slappe av, Sove, Ekstremsport, Lese en bok, Kle seg ut, Gå på konsert, Gå på museum
En ideel første date vil være
Is there such a thing as an ideal first date?
Jeg har alltid hatt lyst til å prøve
Jumping
Mine venner beskriver meg som
Vennlig, Kul, obskur, Tullete
Visninger
Mitt trossamfunn
ikke vedrørende et kirkesamfunn
Jeg går på gudstjeneste
En gang i uken
Mitt mål i livet er
To educate, serve, invest in, and learn about, as many people as possible, in my lifetime. To live everywhere on the planet...okay, not quite realistic LOL how bout, a few places on the planet? hehe
Min humoristiske sans er
Smart, Tørr / Sarkastisk, Vennlig, Tullete, obskur, Slapstick
Smak
På TV ser jeg alltid på
Nyheter, Tegneserier, Drama, Filmer
Når jeg går på kino, går jeg alltid for å se en
Action, Science Fiction, Drama, Andirektemeldingasjon
Når jeg hører på musikk, så hører jeg alltid på
Rap, Rock, Metall, Electro, Pop, Klassisk, Blues, Jazz, Industri, Latin, omgivende, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Gospel, Folkemusikk, Punk
Når jeg leser, så leser jeg alltid
Nyheter, Auto-biografi, Biografi, Tegneserie / tegnestripe, Fiction, Historie, Instruksjonsvideo, Musikk, Politisk, Referanse, Poesi, Teknisk
Min idé av å ha det gøy er
Picnic on top of a parking garage, snapping pics along railroad tracks, climbing a big rock...
or, coffee
or, coffee
Leter etter
Hva finner du attraktivt?
Intelligens, Flott utseende, Humor, Gode ferdigheter, Empati, Følsomhet, Dristighet, Rariteter, Spontanitet, vett, Omtanksfull
Hva ser du etter?
No need to respond if you smoke, drink, drug, are younger than 34 or older than 45. I'm sure there are a whole bunch of really good guys in some of those, but I know what I want and what I don't want.
A clean, sober, kind, laid-back Christian guy that's not self-absorbed. Also, a man who wants to/is not afraid to, travel, and sometimes live in other countries, do some humanitarian work, etc...
Also, everyone has some of this or that...history, baggage, weird stuff, whatever...TODAY are you healthy? or at least pursuing health? TODAY are you honest? Are you seeking truth? Are you owning your own shit? or blaming others for it? or...Are you toxic to yourself and/or others, moving forward or living in the past? Are you a part of the problem? OR Part of the Solution?
A clean, sober, kind, laid-back Christian guy that's not self-absorbed. Also, a man who wants to/is not afraid to, travel, and sometimes live in other countries, do some humanitarian work, etc...
Also, everyone has some of this or that...history, baggage, weird stuff, whatever...TODAY are you healthy? or at least pursuing health? TODAY are you honest? Are you seeking truth? Are you owning your own shit? or blaming others for it? or...Are you toxic to yourself and/or others, moving forward or living in the past? Are you a part of the problem? OR Part of the Solution?
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